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I'm Dr. Annette White. Retired Army Major, life coach, author, and founder of Destiny & Purpose Academy. I help women in transition, emerging leaders, and mission-minded families recover secure identity and walk boldly in purpose.

Retired U.S. Army Major & former Pentagon Leader · Author of four books · Founder, Destiny & Purpose Academy · Creator of The King's Code Initiative · Coach/Consultant.

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This isn't about getting your life together. It's about getting your identity back. That is when everything comes together.

Most coaching programs try to fix what you do. My work goes deeper to the place where your sense of self was shaped, shaken, or silenced.

 

Because when identity is secure, everything downstream of it changes: your decisions, your discipline, your relationships, your leadership, your legacy.

 

Whether you're a woman navigating divorce or reinvention at 50-plus, an emerging leader being stretched beyond your preparation, or a parent mentoring the next generation, the work begins in the same place: who you know yourself to be, before the world tells you who to perform as.

MY FRAMEWORK

Three Critical Pillars

01.

DEVELOPMENT

Become Who You Were Made to Be

Be intentional about the gifts you were given. Develop them. Use them to serve. Blessings always follow.

02.

DISCERNMENT

See What Others Miss

Perceive the needs around you. Build a plan. Give freely. Blessings always follow.

03.

DISCIPLESHIP

Teach One. Change a Generation.

Reach back. Duplicate yourself. Each one, teach one. Blessings always follow.

WHO I SERVE

It's all about

IDENTITY.

My work begins at the place where your sense of self was shaped, shaken, or silenced. When identity is secure, everything downstream of it changes. Your decisions. Your discipline. Your relationships. Your leadership. Your legacy.

You may be a woman navigating divorce or reinvention at 50-plus. You may be an emerging leader being stretched beyond your preparation. You may be a parent mentoring the next generation. The work begins in the same place for all of you. Who you know yourself to be, before the world tells you who to perform as.

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WOMEN 50+ IN TRANSITION

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YOUNG MEN WALKING INTO MANHOOD

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EMERGING LEADERS & FOUNDERS

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CAREGIVERS &
QUIET GIVERS

4 WAYS YOU AND I CAN WORK TOGETHER

1:1 Coaching

The Graceful Living Blueprint

The
Validation Injury Coaching
Method

Retreats & Events

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